New PC Game Helps Kids Deal with Divorce

New PC Game Helps Kids Deal with Divorce

February 11, 2007
Divorce can be emotionally devastating for children, but a PC game created by a longtime family therapist may help ease the pain.

Earthquake in Zipland is the creation of Chaya Harash, who has spent the last 25 years counseling families. She says that the game is the "first research-based psychological computer game designed to help children deal indirectly with divorce and separation."



A press release describes how Earthquake in Zipland works:
The game takes the child on a metaphorical adventure full of colorful characters and challenging tasks, while dealing indirectly with a number of important issues surrounding divorce and separation; issues such as anger, guilt, loyalty conflicts, the fantasy to reunite the divorced parents and other emotional effects of divorce on children.

Earthquake in Zipland is meant to be used by both kids and the parents as well as therapists and support groups.
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If this game actually works then that's nice, but those graphics suck.
@Mystic

You're kidding right?
A) This is a game for kids, not hardcore elite gamers.
B) This isn't some multi-billion dollar company full of top CG Artists

The graphics are enough for someone who has much more important things to worry about, and the fact that that's practically the first thing you comment on is very cold.
Hmm. I know a few kids who could benefit from something like this.
Looks good. More of this sort of thing, please!
A child can never get over such depresion from a digital game no matter how advanced it is
@Mystic_Beauty

It doesn't seem advanced, so I don't think they're trying to hide behind technical qualities. Keep in mind that a family counselor created this idea, and also keep in mind that there are games that help deal with the psychological impacts of certain situations, things that can help you get over fears. Rather than submit a verdict without waiting for results, it might be best to actually see if it helps any- for all you know, you could be dead wrong.
Well, the kids who are gamers would probably be disappointed by the graphics, and probably would get less out of the game because of it. Once this sort of thing catches on, more money will be availible for the developers of such games, which will result in better graphics. Until then, it's a cool idea, and I hope it helps families communicate effectively about a difficult subject.
@Mystic

I think you completely missed the point of the game.

Its not designed to fight the depression. That depression can only be gotten rid of by 1 or 2 things. The parents working to solve the problems that THEY caused, or the child getting away from the conflict.

This game is designed to help kids deals with all the emotional baggage that comes with a divorce.

Split loyalties is the worst part. Even now that I am in college I still deal with that. I've gotten to the point where my parents are not allowed to come visit me.
This is a bad idea, and this is how. She talked that this will help cope with the fears of them splitting and help them have fantasies of them getting back together, she's filling these kids with false hope.
Fife:
If I'm interpreting this right, "Issues such as anger, guilt, split loyalties, the fantasy to reunite the parents, and more" appear to be problems that the game attempts to addressed, not traits that are being taught or encouraged.

I think it sounds like an interesting idea...and the graphics seem cartoony, as though they are being aimed more at younger children.
@Fife

Um, I think you misinterpreted what was said. This thing is meant to help kids whose parents have ALREADY split up and divorced. Often, the child/children of divorced parents have fantasies that they can somehow help their parents get back together. This thing helps kids realize that their parents are unhappy together and that they are NOT going to get back together.
This sounds great! If it works, will there be a game to help the fathers deal with the financial impact of divorce while struggling with emotions of hatred and thoughts of revenge? Avoiding chemical dependancies and gambling problems while trying to de-program your child could be a good antagonistic twist. Spoil the child too much and they could be out ruined... Yay 2 christmas's!!!
The lady that made this game needs to be shot.
Speaking as a kid of a bitter divorce, I can say that the creators of this game have their hearts in the right place.

But speaking as a video game player, I don't know if this would have held my attention as an eight year old kid. My father tried buying my loyalty with an SNES pack containing Donkey Kong Country. The people who say that the graphics on this look weird are right.

I'm thinking a Phoenix Wright expansion pack for the DS, covering this exact topic, would be a really nice idea. Or at the very least, a free to download Flash game on newgrounds.com.
@ Disorganised

That seems a little harsh; why do you think that?
@ Slyther
I can't tell if that's a serious request, but it's so absurd I'd assume not.

@ Disorganized
I'm with Sirikit; you need to back that statement up with an explanation. Normally when people do something to benefit children we don't condemn them.

I like that this game has been made. It's another sign that games can be embraced for purposes other than mere entertainment. The execution, as others have mentioned, leaves something to be desired from a technical standpoint, but the creator's heart is in the right place.

It's obviously intended for younger children, so the comments about the not-so-advanced graphics are much less a concern than if it was meant for teenaged kids. It's not simply a game meant to occupy your kid's time. It's a tool to be used along with the Parent's Guide to help the child and his or her parents discuss and learn to cope with divorce.

I can't speak to the effectiveness of tthe game, but I'll give it an 'A' for effort and innovation.
@ Those commentors that dislike this based on 'graphics'

You have to remember that this game is a part of therapy. What would a kid choose: To sit an talk to a 'doctor,' or sit and play a 'sorta crappy' looking game?

I would suggest that even the most 'hardcore' gamer-kiddie would prefer to play this over the alternative, and this albeit cheesy-looking game would turn a therapy session from, "I hate going to this," into, "Eh, at least there's a videogame."

Also, it's intended for 7-13 year-olds, not older children. So, let's not forget that graphics aren't everything, and remember to put this game in context, like we do every other game we come across.
Hmm....great idea in theory but i think only younger children would consider playing this, somewhere around age 11 i would have said "that's gay" and not played it (i'm 25) The toughest thing would be to say "hey little Jimmy, play this game....erm...oh and it's a metaphor for what you're going through right now...so...treat the game like it's real life..."

Seeing a character go through the pains of divorce is one thing - and maybe the child will vicariously feel some emotion through that - but i don't think it can translate back into reality when the kid is really distraught and has a crazed cycle of emotions. I don't think he's going to stop and say "what would moose do"

With all that being said i haven't seen the game so maybe if it holds the kid's interest and can balance fun and instruction it could really be of great value. I'll be waiting for the "Earthquake in dead-end job land: Time to get a grip and upgrade your career" video game =-P
If you want to call this out, do so based on the price tag. $49 for the home version, and up to $129 for the therapists' version. Now I realize this is to offset development costs, but charging retail-esque prices for a decidedly non-retail product seems a tad greedy, especially because the less expensive home/Pro versions are only available as a download. So your 50 bucks isn't even getting you a CD. Which I realize for gamers isn't a big issue, since direct download is becoming more used, but for parents or therapists?

Now, if the industry was smart, they'd get in there and subsidize this game, port it to consoles, and distribute it for a more monimal fee (home version). The full therapist version could be 50 bucks, since it seems to have other things included. I'd bet it's relatively small investment, compared with dev costs for modern retail games, and well worth the PR.
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and i am al pwnxorz and stuff witout dis shiz

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Different kids / people deal with divorce in different ways. Having a larger toolkit to try and help someone with the grief and confusion is a good thing. Child therapists currently use everything from art to theater to music to help kids find ways to cope and find some meaning during a divorce.

Videogames are a natural addition to the therapy options that should be available, given how much games are a part of modern kid's lives nowadays.
@Slyther
I'm going to venture in the realm of hopeless naive fantasy here.


Basically you want a nationwide change in our family court system. I'm guessing you would also want a presumption of join custody. A better designed child support system that doesn't punish a parent who is doing there best to meet the monthly payments. Preferably one that doesn't throw them into jail for being late and force them to work off the ever increasing debt to get out of jail. We need a system that doesn't make it simpler for the "losing" parent to go off and start a new life and send a check to a child who they will never see.

We need a system that doesn't treat the child like a piece of meat to be fought over. Divorces are not the end of a state recognized relationship, they are a winner take all fight. As long as the system remains that way children AND parents will walk away with problems and animosity. However the children are the ones that hurt the most.
@Brokenscope
How right you are-Unfortunately children are the primary victims of divorce and without as much positivity in thier lives as possible will most likely be the carjacker/gangbangers of the future or one of the ladies wiggling it on the pole at the stripclub or walking the street in pumps in the shady part of town. My comment was pretty much a tongue in cheek spin on how they could make expansion packs for SIMS or something. I was divorced and thank God I didn't breed with the one that fooled me for long enough to go chasing around the Rock band Poison and ultimately ending up on Rikki's rocket. Parents nowaday would do the worlds state of well being a big favor by making sure they're in it for the long haul before breeding. I don't know if this game is a big enough bandaid for a severe problem but if it can help at least a few kids then I guess it's a start.
@Disorganized

Was that called for?
_____________

"Seeing a character go through the pains of divorce is one thing - and maybe the child will vicariously feel some emotion through that - but i don’t think it can translate back into reality when the kid is really distraught and has a crazed cycle of emotions. I don’t think he’s going to stop and say “what would moose do”"
@Tim

Perhaps the focus is on letting kids know the different emotions they're feeling are normal, and that they aren't alone. That, and this simple game could give the kid a feeling of having some kind of control.
they should have made it a FPS. Where's the lawyer with the BFG?
ohhhh moose.... your parents got divorced. You got P'wnd. P.S. It was your fault they did.
@Slyther

Or they could be moody cynical pissed of people like me, you can't forget that group, were in our own special little hell.
I forgot borderline illiterate when tired.
Matthew2...

I was thinking the same thing...
becoming a game player is enjoyable
Re: New PC Game Helps Kids Deal with Divorce

my name is Kristina McDowell and my parents are getting devoriced and i feel like killing myself for it cause i live with my mom and one brother one sister i dont have a room im sleeping in the sitting room please help me.

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