Submitted by GoodRobotUs - April 30, 2008 at 7:55 pm -050079.66.128.86
@Rooster
The thing is, do you consider yourself the rule or the exception?
50 years ago, kids spent too much time listening to Rock'N'Roll and not enough time studying, 30 years ago it was 'Raving', now it is 'gaming'. The message itself, I'll agree, is far from new, but then it is the sort of message that never gets old.
'Business before pleasure' is always an important thing to be concerned with, and whilst you may be a straight 'A' student, America, as a whole, has a problem with its education system. I'm not throwing stones, to quote Douglas Adams, "In the UK, 'knowing stuff" is considered some kind of freakish, anti-social behaviour", but a lot of that problem comes from the fact that both our cultures are slowly becoming 'pleasure before business'.
Now, there's nothing wrong with relaxing and enjoying yourself, but you do it as a reward for completing whatever college work you had to do, I suspect, whereas there IS a tendency to use Video Games, TV and other pastimes as a way to subconsciously avoid doing that work. That is why it is a Parents responsibility to step in and be a Parent. It doesn't always make you popular with your child, but Parenting is about raising a good person, not being 'buddies' with your child. I had a moderately strict upbringing, I wasn't beaten, but I was told I could play after I had done my homework, and no excuses. Personally, I think I benefited from that, and my parents and I have an excellent relationship now.
So yes, you are doing things right, but Barack has the truth of the matter, that for a great many people, they're doing it wrong. I'm not a fan of 'all work and no play' by a long short, but parents have to learn to prioritise for and delegate to their child, and to teach them how to do so for themselves.
Posted 07/24/08 at 01:45pm Dark Sovereign: A fitting metaphor lumi
Posted 07/24/08 at 11:21am lumi: their own. Looks like they're arguing with ghosts...
Posted 07/24/08 at 11:20am lumi: Ooh, and to prove the validity of their arguments, they've deleted all the comments from the gamers/outsiders, and just left
Posted 07/24/08 at 11:20am lumi: Wow...there's worse invective and vitriol on that first feminist site's comments than in most gaming forums I've read...
Posted 07/24/08 at 11:19am SimonBob: You guys can read the feminist blogs? One of 'em has over 1400 comments -- my browser locks up when I try to load the page!
Posted 07/24/08 at 10:49am M. Carusi: That's probably the message to describe hardcore feminism in general. :P
Posted 07/24/08 at 10:35am Tom90deg: Meh, it seems like most of the comments are "I'm right, and it you don't agree with me, you're a girl-hating masonogystic pig!"
Posted 07/24/08 at 10:30am M. Carusi: Those comment walls on the feminist blogs complaining about FP are generating some hilarious content.
Posted 07/24/08 at 08:48am E. Zachary Knight: @ lunatic, What you see is what you get. Once a comment gets pushed off it is gone forever.
Posted 07/24/08 at 07:39am sortableturnip: Best...comments...ever: http://jaablog.jaablaw.com/2008/07/06/jack-needs-your-help.aspx?pg=5&view=threaded
Posted 07/24/08 at 05:42am sortableturnip: Alteffor: I 2nd that motion. GP you should have a special section for all of JT's correspondence to you
Posted 07/23/08 at 10:13pm GRIZZAM PRIME: Lunatic: Nope. Ever fading if I'm not mistaken.
Posted 07/23/08 at 08:05pm LuNaTiC: is there a way to view old shouts? sorry if its a noob question.
Posted 07/23/08 at 07:07pm gamepolitics: momma didn't raise no sock puppet
Posted 07/23/08 at 06:15pm Rodrigo Ybáñez García: Jack is a repressed man. Don´t be surprised...
Posted 07/23/08 at 06:07pm GryphonOsiris: So Jack admitted paying for gay porn... all I can say is wow... just wow...
Posted 07/23/08 at 05:09pm lumi: to the case, and he's been on 60 minutes once!
Posted 07/23/08 at 05:09pm lumi: GP, you should mention you'll be filing a legal injunction against him if he doesn't comply. Phoenix Wright will be attached
Posted 07/23/08 at 03:32pm Alteffor: You should add a section to the site for anything Jack CC's to you. It's always entertaining to read the stuff he writes.
Posted 07/23/08 at 03:31pm Matriculated: Does anyone know when the Supreme Court reaches their decission?
The thing is, do you consider yourself the rule or the exception?
50 years ago, kids spent too much time listening to Rock'N'Roll and not enough time studying, 30 years ago it was 'Raving', now it is 'gaming'. The message itself, I'll agree, is far from new, but then it is the sort of message that never gets old.
'Business before pleasure' is always an important thing to be concerned with, and whilst you may be a straight 'A' student, America, as a whole, has a problem with its education system. I'm not throwing stones, to quote Douglas Adams, "In the UK, 'knowing stuff" is considered some kind of freakish, anti-social behaviour", but a lot of that problem comes from the fact that both our cultures are slowly becoming 'pleasure before business'.
Now, there's nothing wrong with relaxing and enjoying yourself, but you do it as a reward for completing whatever college work you had to do, I suspect, whereas there IS a tendency to use Video Games, TV and other pastimes as a way to subconsciously avoid doing that work. That is why it is a Parents responsibility to step in and be a Parent. It doesn't always make you popular with your child, but Parenting is about raising a good person, not being 'buddies' with your child. I had a moderately strict upbringing, I wasn't beaten, but I was told I could play after I had done my homework, and no excuses. Personally, I think I benefited from that, and my parents and I have an excellent relationship now.
So yes, you are doing things right, but Barack has the truth of the matter, that for a great many people, they're doing it wrong. I'm not a fan of 'all work and no play' by a long short, but parents have to learn to prioritise for and delegate to their child, and to teach them how to do so for themselves.